To be oneself is the goal of life?

 I asked a man who had been teaching kung fu for over 40 years.

 "What is the purpose of your life?"

 "It's to be myself."

 As so-called intellectuals try to teach people the way of life, they often say that people should find themselves or be themselves. It sounds plausible at first glance, but it is nonsense.

 We are ourselves. We don't have to be ourselves or go anywhere to find ourselves. The crucial thing is whether we can see ourselves. It is important to see how exactly we can see facts as they are, how well we can distinguish right from wrong, and how diligent, frugal, and honest we are.

Doubt and confirmation

The beginning of a response to what happens to you in your life is doubt and confirmation. There may be people who respond in this way without knowing it for themselves, but you may be able to respond better by remembering the two words.

Doubting means not trusting or denying the object. After the process of confirmation, you can believe it or deny it. The question is how accurate the results of the verification are. You should check in all possible ways, but still be suspicious of the conclusions drawn through such a process, and look at the post-implementation trend.